Marriage Past and Present

In the middle of writing a comment on my first wife's blog, I pause to reply to an email from...my first wife.

Is this healthy? Is it wise?

Ah well, "The bodhisattva does not take sides."

And Agent 61, my -- what shall I call her? -- "second wife" sounds subordinate -- "current wife" sounds temporary -- I guess I'll just call her my wife -- accepts it in bodhisattvalike fashion.